Being helpful is always the right move. Healthy help comes from the heart, not as a scheme to gain. But as a gift. Helping others is not only good for them and a good thing to do, but it also makes us happier and healthier too. Giving also connects us to others, creating stronger communities and helping to build a happier society for everyone. And it’s not all about money – we can also give our time, ideas, and energy. While it may be more challenging to help right now, it’s more important than ever. A simple comment that can help someone see the truth may be the best help of all. So, if you want to feel good, do good!
I believe that everyone must be helpful. This meant to do what you can to help your neighbor, fellow citizen, and country. Although an act of kindness should indeed be done without any expectation of any returns, at the same time, it is also true that a good deed never goes unrewarded. Have you heard about ‘having a warm heart’? Well, if you show an act of kindness to someone, you can release the hormone called Oxytocin which helps in expanding the blood vessels and, in turn, reduces issues like blood pressure and strained heart vessels. The person experiences positive vibes like inner joy, a happy mood, and self-alertness when they step up to help. Suppose you are anxious and nervous lookout for ways to help others. I am sure you want to be called a warm-hearted person and enjoy a long life.
Someone’s life can change when we give them that sense of hope. Our tiny actions and words of encouragement can change their mindset. They start seeing the brighter parts of the world. They see meaning and purpose in life. Little things may not seem like a lot to us, but it can mean the whole world to the other person. When our motivation or helping saves someone, somehow keeping them from bearing the consequences, we create an unhealthy dependency. When parents try to prevent every bump and hurt, they cripple their child, who begins to fear walking independently. The same holds for your reaching out to help someone, do it delicately as you encourage steps toward independence.
Our experiences say there are right and wrong ways to help. Healthy help says, “with a Little encouragement, you can make it.” Sometimes, the needed help is assurance that mistakes are not the end of the world or that making bad choices is not natural. Caring doesn’t hurt; it feels good even as it encourages someone to make the long-term decision rather than go for the short-term gratification. Loving helps nourish the person’s emotional healthy-being, providing the little boosts necessary to point along. In some cases, helping is dangerous. The more you try to give, the more challenging they accept the help. The more you give, the more they want until you begin to drown. Or the opposite may be true. The wrong kind of help is worse than no help at all and can be harmful to you and the recipient.
What should we do when we are unsure whether our help will be appreciated or viewed as an interruption? What is helpful, and what makes the situation worse? Which feelings should you trust, the ones that urge you to do what you can or the ones that question the rudeness of pushing in with suggestions for change? Don’t be afraid to help but ground yourself. Your help may not turn the person around, and you may be just picking up the pieces. The person you want to change may never change, not in your lifetime. It takes years to become screwed up, and it takes years if it ever happens to detach the patterns that have become fundamental.
Your help may make a significant difference; it may not. Too much support causes codependency, rotating off each other, unable to separate without one, or both, crashing. Remember, healthy help says several things clearly (Elizabeth B. Brown,Living Successfully with Screwed-Up people).
I am here if you need me.
I am here even if you choose unwisely.
I am here, but there are some limitations.
I am here to encourage you.
I am here, but I know your choices and significance belong to you.
I am sharing my experience here because this is an unforgettable moment for me. A few days ago, I was looking at homeless people on the street because I wanted to distribute some blankets because of the cold weather. Do you know what happened? I gave the blanket to the homeless man; he was so happy with this. He wants to reward me, but he has nothing to give me. So, he offered me a Pineapple fruit because he has only had fruit, and that is his dinner or lunch we can consider. I have no words for that moment and look at him how he was an honest, faithful person and had a beautiful heart. When a person with a kind heart reaches out to you, it touches the bottom of your heart. It enlightens your spirit. It transforms you as a person. So, everyone should help others in any positive manner. In the world have many ones need your bits of help. Our one help may change someone’s life forever. I know that many people in the entire world are doing great helps to others.
If everyone helps somehow, then life is better for those who helped, and everyone who participated feels better because they know that what was done was valued. Everyone needs a helping hand now and then, which is why one of my core ethics is to be helpful. When you want to give up, and someone shows up at your door to lift your spirits. Or when someone inspires you to take that little step in life that can change your perspective. Do you think about the importance of kindness? Well, we must remember that kindness is communicable! By being friendly and inspiring, you are not just helping others but can also expect the same in return. Moreover, many hearts around you melt for good and drive towards great acts. So, stand up and be kind. You can be that person who makes a difference. Be there for the person who needs your help the most. Your presence will mean a lot to them. Help them see the light. Empower them with positivity. Bring meaning into their life if every person did something small that could make a difference in the lives of others. You can be that individual!
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