ના નથી હુ જાણતી, શુ કામ શોધુ છુ,
હાથ ની મહેંદી માં તારુ, નામ શોધુ છુ;
સાંજ ને શંણગાર નો આ, ભાર લાગે છે,
મન ભરેલા માંડવા થી, દુર ભાગે છે;
તુ મને લઈ જા, આવી તુ મને લઈ જા,
મન માહી હુ એ જ માંગુ રે….
What a beautiful word in the above Gujarati movie’s song. The word to describe when you find something good without looking for it. There’s no doubt about it, and Words are powerful. I could not explain my awful moments of this song words whenever I listened to this. When we talk about beauty, we talk about what we see and listen to. Listening to words with your heart means looking through your emotions. Listening to words with your brain is purely rational. If a song makes you feel something, it’s a good indicator of your awareness of your feelings and emotions. This blog is all about a woman’s feelings, like what she wants and doesn’t want in her life. Let’s talk about her feeling related to the lines of the song about marriage. Inner beauty concerning a Woman means the beauty of her soul. It is generally reflected by her thoughts, ideas, and how she treats others. The joy she brings to others’ lives, the love she spreads, and the extent to which she accepts others with all their stupidities are ways her inner beauty communicates with the world. But I didn’t understand what marriage meant. Women are constantly pressured to marry and have kids. I derive from an Indian culture, where marriage and kids are everything; Literally, everything. From my perspective, I never, ever thought marriage would bring happiness. I never hope that it’s the reason for happiness, believe me.
I watched my parents fight when I was a kid, and one of my earliest memories was my dad yelling, my mom yelling back, and me immediately thinking, “I don’t want this.” But time changes every situation in life. My brother, sisters, and I were raised in the same environment, and they are happily married. There are many times in life when we are stuck with decisions. Choosing between what you want and what you deserve is very hard. Because, however, we deserve better, we would go back to what we want or like. Many women have no concerns about materialistic things that bother their decision while not being happy in marriage. No materialism will give you happiness; only your true self gives it. They listen to their inner voice and act accordingly. If you are one of them, it’s time to take a proud in yourself. Remember that you are not the same person you were yesterday, nor are you the same person you will be tomorrow. We can’t predict what will be suitable for us in the future. If your aims need to shift, let them! Sometimes they need to shift quickly, so don’t be surprised if that’s the case. Some people do better at relationships than others. Some people want that attachment to call it co-dependence, involvement, connecting. Some don’t.
I am finding the root of happiness because my culture expects marriage is the only settled life. I do not believe it. I know this sound is crazy for all of you. And trust me, I do a lot of inner work. I write a blog. I meditate using a different kind of technique, Reiki, and I go to the depths of my core to figure out what I want out of this life. What am I missing in my life? I follow my heart, and I always wait for its instructions to tell me what my next step should be. Often, some people don’t like my actions because they expect something different. But I am the person who will not let the pressure I put on myself make me not get what I want and deserve. I encourage you all Feminine think, are you satisfied with your marriage? Are you happy in your life? If yes, then you are the luckiest woman on this Earth. Let’s one more time; you must celebrate your relationship. Bless you and have a wonderful life ahead. so, cheer up!
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