All the religious people have said this;” We come alone into this world; we go alone.” All togetherness is illusory. The very idea of togetherness arises because we are alone, and the aloneness hurts. We want to drown our aloneness in a relationship…..
That’s why we become so much involved in love. Try to see the point. Ordinarily, you think you have fallen in love with a woman or with a man because she is beautiful, he is handsome. That is not the truth. The truth is the opposite: you have fallen in love because you can’t be alone. You were going to fall. You were going to avoid yourself somehow or other. And some people don’t fall in Love with Women or Men, then fall in love with money. They start moving into money or a power trip, becoming politicians. That, too, is avoiding your aloneness. If you are a watchman, you will be surprised by one source if you watch yourself intensely. The source is that you are afraid of your aloneness. Everything else is just an excuse. The real cause is that you find yourself very alone.
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